Inspired by the book... Is being possesive means you love the person? I think yes, to a certain extend.. Sometimes we tend to love this person so much that we wish he/she only belongs to us... And whenever there is any intruders, our protective shield will automatically appear... When possesiveness takes over love, means disaster is here... Why do I say so? Somehow, I feel that when a party becomes possesive, another person will suffer and lose his/her freedom... Whatever he/she do, have to seek permission... Machiam like a prisoner or a dog... So sad isn't it... All the freedom will be gone... And this is where the thoughts of being single comes... Imagine... Being single... No need to report anything...Can meet new friends, take up new courses etc... Can do whateva you like... So carefree... Except that it may be alittle lonely at times... But its ok, cos got more friends now... Well... This is just the 'wish'... Not everyone has the ability to make wishes come true... Unless we have the magical heather... Haha... Oh crap...